Looking back in the time -- Dhruvi

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Hello! my wings, I am back finally after a whole year nearly, very happy to tell you guys that i have completed my 12th Boards, and now I am planning to draw my focus to blogging, my health and self development.
 
 
 

 

LOOKING BACK IN THE TIME

Grade 12th or we can say Final year of school is the most important year of any individual's life, for me it was complete unplanned roller coaster ride of failures, emotional heartbreaks, comebacks and many more on the list. Though to wind up I want to share the things I learnt as a student in her last day of school years.

YOUR HEALTH MATTERS THE MOST

We all know the phrase "Health is Wealth" and during the all nighters we tend to compromise our sleep and health in order to achieve something in our academics. To be honest all things done in consistent and organized manner would never lead you to be stressed up at the last day before exams. Me myself, neither a night owl nor an early bird, but still due to some reasons like body shaming and low marks I got stressed, had long hours of sitting and very nil physical movement. Due to this, I got encountered with kidney stone, and that night was horrible night of my life. From that they I regularly took at least 1/2 hour to go on a walk. With good health, It enabled me to push my limits to study late at night and early in the morning, where I managed to get not enough but needy hours of sleep. 

Each body and mind of ours are different, we should understand our need and replenish them regularly.


CHOOSE THOSE WHO CONTRIBUTE TO YOUR GROWTH

In these years,we meet a lot of people, they may be a good looking crush, maybe intelligent guy, or just some bunch of popular girls. You have the ability to decide whom to enter in you life. When I was new school or institute, I was so much fond of having a lot of friends, and even I liked to socialize that I knew a lot of people out there. When I tried to make someone my friend, that would end up being a stranger, but somehow some unintentional strange people  are introduced that become a very important part of life, those you never expected to become one, they became the one who said "I AM PROUD OF YOU". I am grateful to them, and owe them a lot !!! 

You should always be careful of the fake ones as well, as they are prone to extract your happiness. For sure we all have encountered such so called friend but I never give away my self respect in order to save the unity of the group, which was not meant to be together.


TALK TO YOUR MENTOR


Mentors have been very important part of my life since COVID breakdown, it was hard for me to open up. During COVID, some bad days occurred due to which I barely talked to anyone, but as soon as classes went offline, I Drew myself in front of mentors and shared what I felt, the reasons which were cause of my terrible performance, after all that,  one afternoon, I was self studying in classroom, suddenly my physics sir came and told me, "tumhari consistency dekh ke lagta hai tum sincere zaroor ho or kuch kerna bhi chati ho!" from that statement, I felt appreciated, and took active participation in questions and discussion during the sessions thereafter.

Once I was feeling so low, I went to my another mentor, She is very superb zoology teacher, I told her what ever was going on m mind, and though it was not related to any studies, she held and helped me through it, by making me understand how it works. I was first of all very feared to tell my career goal which was completely different from student out there, but she said "YOU CAME TO THE RIGHT PERSON", and yes I was Relieved. She was a mentor, a senior, a friend, and last of all she was my role model.


UNINSTALLING AND INACTIVATING SOCIAL MEDIA ADDED TO NOTHING

My parents and a lot other people told me stay away from social media during the final grade, but by staying away from it made me go more close to it, and even not missing a single opportunity to surf it for some time which gradually beceme a habit. But thing I learnt is, why should I push them away?? why shouldn't I try it to be there in my phone but to have self control over its use. I can say that I learnt how to manage its use proudly, and this helped me overcome this obstacle for my whole life.


BEING GRATEFUL TO THOSE BY YOUR SIDE

We all think that everybody else's life revolve around ours, but that's not true at all. We all are the lead role in our respective life, but we sometime neglect individuals having there own priorities and their own goals. Try to understand them, cause me myself never tried to and then when I am feeling the same way,this made me realized how selfish I was. Growing up into adult come with lots of likes and dislikes in between where we always nodded to play games with our sibling. But after a lot negotiation I played with her and I felt again like a kid and that was the best feeling after so long.


NEVER HIDE SOMETHINGS THAT HURTS YOU

The worst habit of mine was not to let things out of my head, be myself always, things running on mind 24 by 7, overthinking, and not telling anybody. When I found someone that had all ears to my shit, they gave so real advice and calmed me down, tho I ruined their own day, but recently found the reason they pushed me away was this depressed talks we had. Then I realized it was okay for me to let it out,  that depressed the listener. Making fun of our situation and conveying it to others will absolutely results in increase in endorphins, and made us relaxed they said would be better way to communicate. Now when ever, I feel like saying it out I just Write it down and crumble it up or just tear it.

Something caught up inside will always hurt in long run, so Let things out so you feel light, and remain happy the rest of life making happy others around you.


Releasing all the negative traits to the universe and asking for abundance I can get from the mighty Universe.


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